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Dating is a popular way of meeting
people from the opposite sex. Many dates
end-up being a disappointment mostly due
to a lack of communication and
preparation.
When preparing for a date a careful
selection of the person you want to meet
is important. Accepting an invitation from
a person who sounds very wrong for you
will probably end up being wrong for
you.
While
on a date, many people get nervous and end
up talking too much or too little or
saying the wrong things. When chatting
with your date there are simple ways to
make your date feel comfortable and
happy.
The first way to make a person feel at
ease when on a date is by listening when
they talk and not try to out-do whatever
they say. In communication, we are often
tempted to try to find something to say
that will bring back the focus on us
instead of genuinely listening to the
other person.
While listening to the other person
talking while on a date, body language is
very important and reveals your true
feelings. An interested attitude with
nodding of the head and small
encouragements such as 'yes' and 'go on'
will go a long way and will show your date
that you are genuinely interested in what
he has to say. On the other hand, nothing
screams 'you are boring me' like playing
with your silverware, looking around or
worse talking on your
cellphone.
A nice way of communicating with your
date is by looking into the eyes. Make eye
contact as this is very important. This
will serve two purposes: it shows your
date you are interested in what he/she is
saying and it can also be a great way to
flirt and connect with your date. A
general rule is not to stare into his eyes
for prolonged periods as this can make any
person uncomfortable.
Staying away from giving any kind of
unsolicited advice is a must, especially
when on a first date. Nothing will kill
the relationship quicker than if your date
feels you want to control his life and
give him advice he did not ask for. All he
needs is a nice listening ear and
support.
Overall, conversation is a great way to
break the ice while on a date. By sending
the right body signals and communicating
openly, the rest will follow and romance
can be expected.
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